Survey results
Switching Roles - Consultus Survey Results
A national survey commissioned by Stirred Health and Consultus Care, conducted via OnePoll. It asked 500 UK adults aged 50+ with living parents about their experiences of switching roles with their parents and the realities of supporting them as they age.
Common Worries & Concerns - Question 1
68% of respondents worry about their parent's physical health, with over half also concerned about how they’re coping generally (53%).
41% worry about whether their parent needs their help, and 40% about potential falls.
When Roles Begin to Shift - Question 2, 4, 5 & 7
Over half (54%) say roles have already switched with their parent(s), typically happening when they were around 48 years old and their parent was around 73.
A third (33%) felt a sense of responsibility, while general ageing (57%) and declining health (50%) were the most common drivers.
What Role Reversal Looks Like - Question 3
Among those who have switched roles:
54% help with official documents
49% are now the designated driver
47% assist with digital devices / security
47% help manage their parents' finances
39% feel more like a caregiver than a child
Daily Life Support - Question 8
39% help set up tech, 36% give lifts, and 35% do food shopping.
Practical help extends to appointments, bills, gardening, DIY, and even personal care (e.g. 6% help with bathing).
How Caring Affects Daily Life & Work for the Sandwich Generation - Question 10
Nearly 1 in 5 (19%) have cancelled social plans
18% have taken annual leave to help or care for their parent
15% have reduced working hours earlier than planned
14% have had to leave work unexpectedly
Time Commitment - Question 12 & 13
On average, people visit their parents 2 days a week, and call them 3.2 times per week.
33% have a set day to help, with tasks ranging from making tea and gardening to medication reminders and cooking.
Why Staying at Home Matters - Question 16 & 17
94% say it’s important their parent stays in their own home.
Top reasons:
Comfort: 63% say it’s about familiarity and independence
Security: 51% say they feel safer at home and knowing their neighbours (52%)
Emotional well-being: 44% cite memories
Attitudes Toward Professional Care - Question 18 & 19
Only 9% currently have carers going into the home — and 61% haven’t discussed any care options at all.
But:
48% say they’d hate to see their parent leave home
40% say it’s vital to trust anyone entering their parent’s home
24% would value carers helping their parent continue to do the things they love